Monday, November 12, 2007

boys looking like girls and girls looking like boys.

I've always found it strange how much more attention a guy gets when he dresses and acts like a girl than a girl gets when she dresses like a boy. It's for some reason much more controversial to see a guy dressing as a girl. I don't undesrtand why there's such a larger issue. Maybe it's because society thinks that it's more acceptable to be a boy than to be a girl. I may be thinking too deeply into this, but maybe there's some truth to this thought.

I can't help but be reminded of a song that Madonna wrote called, "What It Feels Like for a Girl." The song basically revolves around what I'm talking about here. Here's a few of the strongest lines from the song:

Girls can wear jeans
And cut their hair short
Wear shirts and boots
'Cause it's OK to be a boy
But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading
'Cause you think that being a girl is degrading
But secretly you'd love to know what it's like
Wouldn't you
What it feels like for a girl
I think there is a deeper issue embedded in society's outlook on the difference between males and females. I would have no idea where to start on this. I think it just all relates back to society's inability to adapt to new things. We haven't yet let go of racism. We still have yet to see men and women as equals. Though society as a whole might be close to it, discrimination like this will always exist. We can never wipe it out. That's why girls looking like boys is no big deal. But for a boy to dress like a girl is still so taboo.

1 comment:

jacqueline said...

Thanks for reminding me about that Madonna song--I think women have it easier than men in this way. We are encased in other troubles, sure, but we do have more freedom in some ways. Take care,

J